satin dress with long sleeves Plus Emery Sleeve Collared Black / 22W 27 inches or 64 Duntery Bridesmaid Dress Sweetheart Neck

Choose shirts that are slightly shorter in length, but not cropped

So we set out to round up a few picks we're throwing into our Amazon carts alongside a plush bulldog pillow and a three-pack of Sriracha

A quick check in front of a mirror before the wedding, raising your arms and sitting down, confirms the dress will behave through the day.

For a final flourish, reach for a shoulder bag and subtle jewellery like a classic watch and drop earrings

For a sense of how this dressed-up but comfortable standard translates into specific outfit choices, our overview of cocktail attire for women covers what works and what to avoid

Creative Director Carrie Goldberg